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AAPI Heritage Month: Chiling Therrien Remembers her Cultural Voice through Family Meals

In honor of Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month, we asked our Finance and Administrative Manager, Chiling Therrien, to share her story with us. 

In 2016, I moved to the USA as a new immigrant from Taiwan, filled with hope and aspirations for a brighter future and pursuing my bachelor’s degree. Yet, the journey wasn’t without its challenges. Navigating the complexities of settling into a new country, I encountered numerous obstacles—language barriers, cultural differences, and the daunting task of building a career. Adding to the complexity, I didn’t have much working experience in the USA because I was first here as a student, and then after graduating from university, I chose to be a stay-at-home mother to take care of my newborn daughter while working on changing my immigration status for almost 2 years. This four-year transition period made it particularly challenging to re-enter the workforce and find a job.

I remember the feelings of discouragement and self-doubt that plagued me during those early days. Rejected time and again for job opportunities due to concerns about experience and English proficiency, I began to question my worth and whether I would ever find my place in this new land. It was a lonely and disheartening period—one marked by a deep longing to belong and a fear of rejection for embracing my cultural heritage.

Chiling Therrien (right) teaching her kids how to make homemade dumplings.

In my culture, independence is valued, and we’re taught not to rely too much on others to avoid becoming a burden. My hardworking parents provided for my sister and me without ever saying “I love you,” but their actions spoke volumes. Sharing frustrations wasn’t common; we preferred to “share joy, not worry.” Therefore, I didn’t want to burden them with my loneliness in a foreign land.

After a lengthy search, I got the offer from my first job, an administrative role, and I was very grateful to meet a leader who discovered my talent and gave me the opportunity to shine in the area I am passionate about at work. When I shared the news with my parents, their response was classic (like typical Taiwanese parents)—they said, “Don’t screw up,” which in our family translates to “good job.” I knew they were happy for me. 

During my early years in the United States, I was afraid to show where I came from. I tried to conform to what I perceived as the ‘American’ way in order to fit into the culture here. I was also very lucky to meet some friends who were supportive and who helped me learn about the new cultures I found in my new community. I was embraced by a diverse and inclusive community that celebrated the richness of cultural diversity and embraced each individual’s unique identity. Thanks to this support and my own drive to thrive in my new environment, my confidence and self-affirmation value have grown throughout my career.

After living here for eight years, I now realize that the United States itself is a melting pot, a country rich in multiculturalism. American culture is shaped by the diverse backgrounds of its people. There’s nothing wrong with being myself in this country; rather, when I am myself I add to the richness of the pot. I have rediscovered my voice, my strength, and my sense of purpose. 

Chiling’s children during a recent family trip to Taiwan.

One of the most profound transformations I experienced in my new home, New Hampshire, USA, was the journey of self-discovery and empowerment I undertook alongside my daughter and son. As a mother, I was determined to instill in them a sense of pride in their heritage and to cultivate within them the courage to embrace their identity unapologetically. Together, we embarked on a journey of exploration, celebrating our Taiwanese heritage and immersing ourselves in the rich tapestry of cultures that make up our diverse community.

I fondly remember the joy and pride I experienced when my daughter confidently embraced her cultural heritage—teaching her school friends Mandarin and immersing herself in our Taiwanese roots. Every weekend, we eagerly embarked on culinary adventures, seeking out the restaurants where we could best savor the flavors of our beloved Taiwanese cuisine. Exploring local Asian supermarkets became a cherished tradition for us as we hunted for ingredients not commonly found elsewhere. Together, we would cook and present delicious Taiwanese dishes, strengthening our connection to our heritage. For me, food serves as a heartfelt bridge that weaves a stronger connection between me and my children and envelopes us in warmth and closeness. 

Photo of a Lunar New Year’s Eve dinner that Chiling created at home during the pandemic since they were not able to travel home for the holiday.

Rooted in our upbringing, our culture has instilled within us a profound reverence for food, teaching us to cherish every ingredient as a precious gift from nature. It’s a poignant reminder of our heritage; a reminder that in savoring the rich flavors of our homeland, we are embracing our identity and preserving our cultural legacy for generations to come. As we gather around the table, sharing in the culinary treasures of our Taiwanese heritage, each bite becomes a testament to the love and unity that bind us together as a family. Through the eyes of my children, I rediscovered the beauty and depth of my cultural background, embarking on a transformative journey of cultural identity and empowerment that forever altered the course of our lives.

Photo of a family meal Chiling and her family enjoyed in Taiwan recently.

I have come to be at Food For Free because my heart is filled with a burning desire to combat hunger in our community while also minimizing food waste and maximizing the utilization of food resources. My passion for making a positive impact in our community is what drives me to be part of this organization. As a graduate in hospitality management, my heart aches as I recall the distressing sight of large quantities of food being habitually wasted during my internship at a large hotel. My experiences in the hospitality industry, coupled with witnessing the stark reality of food waste, have stirred an unwavering passion within me for this cause. I am deeply moved by the tireless dedication of our team and volunteers, whose relentless efforts rescue food and provide sustenance to those in need.

With each action we take, no matter how seemingly insignificant, I am reminded of the profound impact we have on the lives of others. Every meal saved is a beacon of hope, a lifeline for someone struggling to make ends meet. As I contribute to the behind-the-scenes financial and administrative operations, I am honored and humbled to stand alongside the Food For Free team. Together, driven by a shared purpose, we strive to make a tangible and heartfelt difference in the lives of those we serve.

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Chiling Therrien joined the Food For Free team in March 2024 as our Finance and Administrative Manager. We are grateful for the diligent attention she brings to her work and the richness she adds to the Food For Free community. To make a donation in support of our work to fight hunger and food waste, please visit https://foodforfree.org/donate/.

1 year ago

What Kentucky can teach Democrats about winning in red districts

2024 Election

We asked Democrats in red and purple districts: How will you win votes this election?

How blue candidates win in red districts

A Chicago police officer takes a picture of people posing before a mural of Vice President Kamala Harris outside the Democratic National Convention. Charly Triballeau/AFP via Getty Images hide caption

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Kentucky Gov. Andy Beshear started his speech at the Democratic National Convention last week by talking about abortion rights as a matter of humanity and empathy — and as a winning issue for his re-election campaign.

“I beat Donald Trump and Mitch McConnell’s handpicked candidate by more than five percentage points,” he told the cheering crowd.

Beshear is an increasingly rare figure: a Democrat who holds statewide office in a state where politics is dominated by Republicans.

In Kentucky, Republicans have supermajorities in both houses of the legislature, and both U.S. Senate seats.

So Beshear’s political success in the state as a Democrat could be a useful example for the Harris-Walz campaign.

One of Donald Trump’s most common attacks on Kamala Harris is that she represents the most left-wing slice of America.

When you look at her history as a candidate, it is true that before she became vice president, Harris had only won elections in solidly blue, liberal places — to become San Francisco district attorney, then attorney general for the state of California, then a senator from California.

To win the White House, the Harris-Walz ticket will need to appeal to voters in purple, maybe even red areas. We asked Democrats who live in those areas: what could make that happen?

Democrats say it’s about showing up

Many delegates at the Democratic National Convention came to Chicago from more conservative parts of the country.

NPR asked them what they think Democrats need to do to reach voters where they’re from. Here's what a few of them said:

  • Leah Midgarden of Minnesota: “It's so important for leaders to step up and say, 'Let's take a step back and let's recognize and take a moment to realize where we all have shared values.'"
  • Chris Jones of Arkansas: “Really the bottom line is showing up and if [Harris] can show that, 'I'm showing up and I'm listening, saying, I see you, I hear you.'" 
  • Bre Maxwell of South Carolina: “Not only do we need to show up, we need to also make sure that we are meeting people where they are.”

Maxwell says meeting people where they are means talking about the things that are important to them — not culture wars, but basic needs.

“We all deserve clean water, access to health care, making sure that K through 12 education is funded, making sure that women have access to reproductive care,” she said.

Anthony Flaccavento, co-founder and executive director of the Rural Urban Bridge Initiative, echoed the need for the Harris campaign to drive that message home during the convention.

“For too long, both parties completely neglected the struggles [rural voters] face, sometimes even enabled them,” he said, noting that red state residents want to hear that candidates will fight for the economic and everyday interests of small business owners over big corporate needs.

“I think if they stick with that basic message and show that they're sincere and that their policy proposals reflect that as well, then I think they have a very good chance of winning.”

Democrats' performance in rural America has been declining in recent years. Scott Olson/Getty Images hide caption

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And as Maxwell sees it, a lot of the work her party needs to do in red state America is unglamorous and invisible: “Making sure that we are investing into coordinated campaigns in these states, and making sure that we are investing into statewide voter registration.”

It goes back to the idea of showing up. She says Democrats have not prioritized that in rural areas until now.

And then there's the tone.

The messenger and the message

Midgarden was raised on a North Dakota farm and now lives in Red Wing, Minn. — population 16,000.

“There's a real sense from rural people that we are looked down on by urban elites,” she said.

Speakers at the DNC seemed to have gotten the memo. There was no talk of deplorables, as Hillary Clinton once put it in a speech, or people who get bitter and cling to guns or religion, as President Obama once said at a private fundraiser.

Here's how Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz talked about his upbringing in Nebraska at the DNC: “That family down the road, they may not think like you do, they may not pray like you do, they may not love like you do. But they're your neighbors and you look out for them and they look out for you.”

For all the optimism and enthusiasm in Chicago, the numbers are very clear and they don't look good for Democrats: The party's performance in rural America has been sinking steadily for more than a decade.

But you can find places on the map where Democrats have won statewide elections in red states, and those campaigns often have the same guy working behind the scenes: Eric Hyers, a Democratic political strategist.

Kentucky Governor Andy Beshear addresses the media in 2021. Jon Cherry/Getty Images hide caption

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Hyers said that to win red areas — like Gov. Beshear did in Kentucky — the messenger matters as much as the message. “We had sheriffs, we had Republican business owners, and we kept that going for many, many, many weeks,” he said.

Most of the high-profile Democratic politicians who have carried red states are white men. As a woman of Black and South Asian descent, Harris is not. Chris Jones of Arkansas — a Black man — ran an unsuccessful campaign for governor against Sarah Huckabee Sanders.

He said it's not a coincidence that the Democratic winners in red states have generally been white men, noting: "If you look at most sectors in the U.S. over the last 200 years, it's been white men." But he believes the past doesn't have to predict the future.

The trend lines for Democrats in red areas aren't going to flip overnight, but the path to victory might not require Harris to get a majority in areas that Trump won four years ago. It might be enough just to lose in those counties by a little bit less.

Ashley Brown and Patrick Jarenwattananon contributed to this report.